Sunday, July 18, 2010

A trip to Wagah

Recently as I sipped the steaming tea from the steel glass at a friend's house our chitchat diverted to partition of India and Pakistan in 1947. It traversed through the movies made on the horrifying historical event to personal stories to the troubled Indo-Pak relationship.


While we discussed the relationship between these two estranged siblings that were born out of the same womb, I shared my reminiscences of Wagah border, the international checkpoint in Amritsar, Punjab, a Northern Indian state. I traveled back in time to paint the picture of the flag lowering ceremony at this border which is nothing more than iron gate, one that is identical to entrances of many Indian household.

The ceremony was marked with display of patriotic spirit and din of trumpets. As the sun bid its adieu, a silence pervaded in the arena where the crowd sat glued to see the ceremony that epitomized friendship and veneration. One could see the Indian "Border Security Forces," soldiers dressed in khaki and Pakistani "Rangers," dressed in black march passionately toward the gate and wave their swords to the tunes of music ebbing from the military band. The tapping sounds from their boots were audible even at a distance.

As the gates flung open the flags of both countries were lowered with great respect and honor. The soldiers then retreated to their respective sides and the gates were slammed shut; the sounds of trumpets doused out and the crowd turned its back on each other to walk home.

As we strolled back to our car I was left with a mixed feeling. While I was awe-struck with the spectacular scene it seemed more like a ritual rather than a feeling from heart. I can vividly remember the verbal skirmish the crowd engaged in as they shouted the slogans of Pakistan Zindabad and Hindustan Zindabad. And though people on both sides appeared as each other's reflection (given the fact that people look similar and have a similar culture) they have always remained antipodal to one another.

Though it’s been five years since I visited the mighty border that has witnessed some of the most horrifying and important political developments in the history of these countries I still wonder if the fissures in heart and mind of the people can ever be cemented.


Monday, July 12, 2010

"Wii and We"

I am Princess Nautanki and my husband is Enzo and we have made friends with Ryan, Mario, Hiroshi and the list goes on....Well, if you have not already guessed it these are friends from the Nintendo's "Wii" and together "We" play tennis, baseball and even punch each other in the game of boxing.


Ah! but we have no hard feelings even if we punch each other hard or loose while pitching or smashing a hit. We know its all in the good spirit. Well, you see I have not played too much of these sports in my growing up years and all these new friends are here to teach me. And guess what I have started liking all these sports not only on screen but in real life too.

Though I have hated WWF all my life boxing on Wii is now my favorite. I always manage to hit those extra punches that make my opponents tumble down and give a good exercise to my biceps. These new found friends are also special because they helped me to connect with my seven-year-old nephew who is growing up in a country completely different from the one I grew up in.

And when you are two generations apart with two different cultural perspectives, communication can get difficult. But with "Wii" "We" too have something common to share and talk about.